Romantic culture says follow your heart, but emotions deserve examination. The problem is bad thinking, not too much thinking.
Romantic culture says follow your heart, but emotions deserve examination. The problem is bad thinking, not too much thinking.
More from this video
See all →Addiction is any recurring behavior used to escape uncomfortable thoughts and emotions, not just…
In love, people do not seek happiness alone. Familiar suffering can feel more like love than peace.
Sulking begins when you expect a lover to read your mind, then resent them for missing thoughts…
People can reject kind, accomplished partners who do not recreate the suffering they learned to…
Rage often begins as frustrated optimism: reality violates our intense expectation that the world…
Adults expect relationships to recreate being loved, but adult love also demands actively loving…
The demand for a perfect partner creates loneliness. Every relationship requires negotiating…
Healthy couples teach each other while relaxed, accepting misunderstanding as part of learning…
Don't lose this one
A free account saves insights like this to your Boards, and Korva resurfaces them so you actually remember.