A Rally Told Supporters to Answer Hecklers by Salsa Dancing
The emcee told the crowd in advance what to do if disruptions came, then had everyone dance in the opening moments.

The Curiosity Shop with Brené Brown and Adam Grant · Can Conflict Actually Make Our Relationships Stronger? with Priya ParkerThe emcee, a comedian, stood before a large rally in Washington Heights, and gave the crowd a warning about disruptions. "Now, we may have some disruptions," he said. The crowd answered, "Boo."
He told them what to listen for. If the program could not continue, he said, they would hear a song, Danza Kuduro, with its bouncy da-na-na-na-na opening. When they heard it, they should stand up and dance. "We know you can do it," he said.
The instructions came from an approach described by Priya Parker, a facilitator who advises groups on gatherings and conflict and who did advising work for Zohran Mamdani's mayoral campaign. The campaign, she said, treated the way it brought people together as central to both building support and governing. As rallies grew larger, she said, hecklers and protesters were expected, as at any rally drawing attention.
Parker said she asks teams to think "instead of de-escalation," meaning instead of focusing only on calming a confrontation down, to ask, in her words, "How do we insert joy?" As Parker put it: "How do you send in the opera singers? How do you blast salsa music? And teach everyone to dance, right?"
In Washington Heights, a large Latino and Latina neighborhood, she said, the idea became literal. Early in the rally, after the explanation, everyone started laughing, stood up, and started salsa dancing.
Parker said the dance was a way to increase warmth in the room and have people embody their values, while also defusing tension. She argued that people limit themselves by assuming conflict can only be antagonistic, rather than finding ways to stay in relationship around something they share and care about.
The dance began early in the rally. The crowd that had booed at the thought of an interruption was already on its feet, laughing and moving together, ready to answer trouble with a shared step.
Questions people ask
What is Danza Kuduro?
Danza Kuduro is a fast, brass-driven dance hit released in 2010 by Don Omar and Lucenzo. Built for group dancing, with a singalong chorus and a steady reggaeton beat, it is a staple at parties, weddings, and clubs across Latin America and the United States.
Does dancing together actually calm a tense crowd?
Movement can lower tension because it releases nervous energy, synchronizes breathing and rhythm, and gives a crowd something shared to do besides stare at a disruptor. Researchers also find that moving in unison increases feelings of connection and cooperation, which is why group dance is often used at weddings and public celebrations.
Who is Priya Parker?
Parker is a facilitator who advises organizations and campaigns on how to run meetings, rituals, and public events. Her work focuses on purpose, ground rules, and physical setup, so that difficult moments have a structure before they begin.