Your Brain Deletes Sounds That Never Change
Listening is not recording, it is filtering for change, which is why a constant hiss soon vanishes.

TED · 5 ways to listen better | Julian Treasure | TEDJulian Treasure, a sound expert, offers a simple test. Leave pink noise, a steady rushing sound, playing in the room, and he says the audience would soon tune it out altogether.
Treasure defines "listening as making meaning from sound." It is mental work that pulls out what matters. Your brain is constantly deciding what is signal and what can be safely ignored.
One tool is pattern recognition. In the noise of a cocktail party, say, "David, Sara, pay attention," and the Davids and Saras sit up. Treasure says "we recognize patterns to distinguish noise from signal," especially our own name.
Another tool is what he calls differencing. We tune in to what shifts in sound and let steady background fade away. A steady rushing sound does not change, so after a few minutes the brain simply drops it from awareness.
Then there is a set of filters that narrow all sound down to what you actually notice. Treasure says most people go through the day unaware of these filters, yet the filters shape experience because they tell us what we are focusing on at that moment.
Intention is part of that, and Treasure says intention is very important in listening. When he married his wife, he promised to "listen to her every day as if for the first time," an intention he admits he falls short of daily.
Questions people ask
Does the ear itself stop responding, or is it all in the brain?
It is mainly in the auditory pathway and the brain. Nerve cells along the pathway reduce their firing when a stimulus stays constant, a process often called neural adaptation or habituation. That saves energy and leaves the brain free to notice something new.
Why do I suddenly notice a constant sound when it stops?
The brain treats a sudden change as possible news. A refrigerator hum that stops or a pause in conversation signals that conditions have changed, so attention snaps back to check what happened. The return of attention is what makes you notice the quiet.